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Slythis
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 Posted: 05-Sep-2003 11:12 Post subject: Getting over a relationship... |
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I finally thought I was really over it. I thought Kass was behind me and that I could finally move on... until last night... she called me just to make sure I was ok (I hadn't talked to her all week) and she told me somethings that pretty much said that theres no chance that she and I can so much as be friends anymore, and that put me back at square one... why is it so hard to just get over her? One thing that last night made clear is that I didn't hurt because I lost her (I'd kind of seen it coming) it hurt because when I lost her all of the good things she made me feel about myself went with her and now no matter what people say and no matter how much I trust them I can't believe that I'm the good person that they say I am. Joe and Talon good examples of that, they've both tried really hard to help me through this and both have tried to tell me that I'm a good person but I just don't feel it... do you guys think that it's to early for me to heal, or am I just stopping myself from getting better and dragging down everyone around me?
oops, I shoulda put this in off topic... umm, can someone move it?
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chihawk
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| Posted: 05-Sep-2003 12:04 Post subject: RE: Getting over a relationship... |
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On 2003-09-05 11:12, Slythis wrote:
oops, I shoulda put this in off topic... umm, can someone move it?
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No problem, but we'll move it to the B&G instead. 
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Slythis
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| Posted: 05-Sep-2003 12:11 Post subject: RE: Getting over a relationship... |
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Thanks Chihawk.
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Sir Henry
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| Posted: 05-Sep-2003 14:09 Post subject: RE: Getting over a relationship... |
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Where better to talk about your problems than at a Bar???
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Slythis
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| Posted: 05-Sep-2003 15:57 Post subject: RE: Getting over a relationship... |
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lol oddly enough I've already got a job as a bar tender lined up for next year... wow... all of my own problems and I'll get to listen to other people's... maybe thats what I need....
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chihawk
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| Posted: 05-Sep-2003 17:00 Post subject: RE: Getting over a relationship... |
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I tended bar for a few years and I can tell you that I can count on one hand the number of times I listened to someone's problems like the stereo-typical bartender....mostly because you're too busy too.
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Sir Henry
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| Posted: 08-Sep-2003 07:32 Post subject: RE: Getting over a relationship... |
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Only in a large Bar. In a small one, the regulars will talk your head off....
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